Everything in time is khair and not a minute before or after. So, when it's time for you to have it (marriage, job, child, house, car, etc.), you will have them! So do not rush and have patience, because right now it's better for you not to have it; that's why you don't have it!
ibn Al-Qayyim said:
"Among those who remember Allāh is he who makes dhikr with his tongue, even if he's not paying attention to it initially. He continues in the dhikr until his heart becomes attentive to it, and they begin to work in tandem."
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Ibn Al-Qayyim said:
"From the signs of misery is that you forget your own faults and concentrate on the faults of the people."
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