Dopamine from information gathering is a dangerous drug. Your entire life will change the moment you stop looking for more information and start acting on the information you already have. Always get your dopamine from action.
I realized recently I’ve been too cautious with my youth. Playing life like a spreadsheet. Optimizing. Protecting. Trying to engineer safety instead of chasing meaning. But the truth is, you don’t get lore from balance sheets. You get it from chaos.
From falling in love in a
i think most dating norms like “wait 3 months before going exclusive” etc just distract from the only question that actually matters: do you like being with this person and want to keep being with them?
when it feels right, rules stop mattering
i'm learning a lot but mostly i'm learning that you should probably never be a girlfriend for longer than like two years. if he doesn't want to marry you then, he just won't probably ever. many were saying this and i was in blissful denial
body count discourse is weird because it’s so subjective, so trying to quantify what’s ok as a public group project online is dumb.
triple digits ain’t it for me but airing and judging is for 1:1 IRL chats not the global tweetosphere.