I teach a very vibrant young girl. She has the brightest light. Her Dad passed away about 2 months ago. I noticed she was wearing a man's watch on her hand. It was her Dad's. I told her how cool I thought that was.
Always remember that what a person dislikes in you, is what they lack in themselves. As soon as they see you as competition, move the fuck on! I don't have time to compete. I only compete with myself.