Finding your person.>>>>>>>

I have such delusional faith that things are gonna workout for me and I can do anything I put my mind to. So far it’s worked.

“One day, you'll realize that no one was really watching, and you could have done whatever you wanted.” 📍

when you finally realize that someone’s behavior has more to do with their internal struggle than it ever did with you, you learn grace. you also naturally learn detachment as well.

If money didn't matter I'd be an owner of a small bookstore in a quiet small town!

On Friendships 🌸

Dear algorithm, connect me with people who love books — people who love reading, writing, yapping about, buying, travelling to talk about books.

I am trying to learn to be more confrontational in friendships and it’s so weird. It comes so easily to me in romantic relationships, but never in friendships and I need to understand why. I need to learn to address issues instead of always silently cutting people off fr.

Honestly, if you have a job rn, please hold on to it and cherish it. You don’t want to be in this pool. I promise you.

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Please date a man who believes in romance & provider mindset. Like holding doors open for you, buying you flowers, writing you love letters, courting you, treating you gently, planning surprises for you and honouring your heart in whatever ways he can & you deserve all of that >

Friends. Having actual friends. Not familiar acquaintances or online mutuals. Real Friends. One of the best hacks for a fulfilling life.

Saints, be careful what you say or write. Your words literally license either of two forces, good or bad, to act for or against you. “For, Whoever would love life and see good days must keep their tongue from evil and their lips from deceitful speech” 1 Peter 3:10

"If he wanted to he would" is a phrase every grown woman should live by. Like if he wants to talk to you, he will. If he wants to take care of you, he will. If he wants to see you, he will. If he Wants to make a relationship work, he will move mountains. It's really that simple!

Not to be dramatic, but money really makes you a better friend, sibling, partner and literally everything.

Being able to buy books without worrying about your bank balance.

BREAKING NEWS!!! Coworkers are NOT your friends! Avoid gossip, Don't brag, Do your job, Get paid, Go home. Brooooo Keep your private life to yourself.

You’ll be a wife who multiplies everything she touches. Your husband ideas, his peace, his legacy, his joy because favor follows you.