just launched my substack: deesperspective.substack.com i'll be writing essays on identity, healing, and rewriting survival scripts. first drop this friday. visual excerpts + messy drafts on IG → Dees.perspective

you pity the moth confusing a lamp for the moon, yet here you are confusing a screen for the world

if you’re the “emotionally intelligent” one in your relationships, this might be for you 🧵

you explain clearly. you regulate first. you zoom out. you track patterns. you soften tension. while you think that makes the relationship safer, it might just be making it uneven.

have you ever realised you were the surplus? the one absorbing what should have forced redesign? new essay live on substack: the architecture of withdrawal open.substack.com/pub/deesperspe…

I can't believe I'll have a one year old by the end of this month. What I especially can't believe is that I still find myself, in the middle of the night, checking to make sure she's breathing 🫣😭 I think my mother might have been right when she said it doesn't really ever stop

In Franz Kafka’s letter to his father, he wrote “I know it is my father's first time on this Earth, too. And I know He had it worse when he was little. But I was little too”