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╱ let me make it very clear now that if you are someone who cannot take accountability in the face of MANY and i mean COUNTLESS people coming forward and pointing out your disgusting behavior , then how much longer can you really play yourself in the victim corner ?

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No one teaches you how to let go. Not really. You just end up in situations where you have to figure it out for yourself, while feeling like you’re being ripped apart inside. And then you start wondering why it’s so hard, and why it takes so long, and why you can’t just get over

❣️: little bit of motivation for my fellow writers. Don’t be so harsh on yourself, love. This is supposed to be a fun hobby. Trying to compare yourself to others will only stunt your happiness and development. Write your hearts out! Have fun with it!

normalize seeing someone’s lack of effort as their lack of interest in you regardless of what they tell you

There’s a beauty in someone who can hold your pain in their hands without turning it into a mirror of their shame. Conflict is never the killer of love. Avoidance is. The shutdowns, the ghosting, the silent treatment.

You can’t build love with someone who’s committed to defending themselves more than they’re committed to understanding you. When they see conflict as an attack, they’re not with you anymore. They’re with the version of you they’ve invented to protect themselves.

Ppl in self-protection mode often think they’re emotionally intelligent. They’ll say they’re ‘self-aware,’ they ‘need space to process,’ that they’re just ‘setting boundaries’… But a boundary isn’t a wall you throw up when someone needs you emotionally.

So next time someone tells you they’re emotionally intelligent, don’t look at how well they speak about emotions. Watch how they respond when yours show up with a shaking voice & ask to be held. Emotional maturity isn’t found in how someone loves you when things are easy.

If someone is obsessed with you, overloves you, or overcares for you, they may be trying to give you the love they never received. If someone texts you frequently, checks in constantly, and seems a bit obsessed, they may not be trying to burden you; they may be trying to give you

Maturity is realising you’re gonna have to do a little bit of forgiving to have lasting relationships. But it also requires the other person to be remorseful first. Many ppl come back hoping to reconnect, but not to repair. They want ease where there’s still blood in the ground.

Please do good, always do good. As best as you can. In sizeable quantities. In small chunks. Indisputable and utterly obvious good. Subtle and elusive good. Just be kind, please.

Reassurance is so important to me, let me know what i mean to you.

The only definition I have for love is consideration. It is really difficult for me to see inconsideration as love. When you genuinely love a person, there are certain things you will not do to them, and there are certain things you will not let them do for you.

I don’t want to but I may switch this profile to another character or make a new profile.