when gay guys are christian it’s really really scary

On peak hours for the next few weeks.

after full listens, i may have to switch to the dark side….

ABSOLUTELY!!! Full Moon is the best Brandy album HANDS DOWN!!!

Cutting people off & cutting them out of your life is the best thing you can do. I recently did that with every member of my family except 1 person, and I’m so much better. Going forward, if you silence my pain, don’t take accountability for your bs, or lie on me, you’re cut!

my big three.

black atheists and agnostics are the realest niggas ever bc it takes a lot of bravery and belief in self to question and leave behind a religion that is so intrinsically linked to our (colonial!) cultural identity

Tops Christianity encourages you not to think critically because once you do, you realise it makes no sense. You're an adult just live your life and be good to others. If you believe in God keep it personal, and discover within yourself how you want to navigate that relationship.

As a result of ADHD, all my motivation is external. I’m motivated by spite, pressure, last minute deadlines, suffering, fear, proving my point, etc. If my world isn’t about to fall apart, I’m chilling. So, unfortunately all my lessons are learned the hard way lmaoooo

Tweets are disgusting.

Dating nowadays is a joke. You have to act like you don't care, wait hours to reply, pretend you're not too interested just so they don't think you're too available. God forbid you actually like someone and show it. It's not love anymore, it's all mind game.

A healthy relationship is a balance between loving your partner for who they are and being open to each other’s growth.. real love isn’t attached to changing you, but it will embrace the changes that emerge when you decide to evolve. Growing together is a real blessing.

according to physiology people who go silent when somethings upsets them or hurts them are often experiencing a coping mechanism called emotional withdrawal. 1/4

Okay. I’m OBSESSED!!!!!! The way they ate the dancing!

Lmao, baby the way I just screamed!!! lol

I went to the movie by myself and I noticed a young black man slip into the theater once they lowered the lights for the film. Immediately after the movie ended, he slipped out. I think about him sometimes and wonder what that movie meant to him.

I won't let you people gaslight me into thinking intellectual mismatch is not a thing in romantic relationships. It is not even about formal degrees or booksmarts. It shows up in things like curiousity, conversational depth, imagination, openness, and worldviews.

Had to get them together.