feyisayo 💸 dating isn't always about faces & body shape/muscles. dating is also about choosing someone who can advise u, some1 who can tell u when u go wrong, some1 who can pick u up when you're down emotionally, spiritually & tries to understand & support ur ideas...

People easily switch up, make sure you are taking good care of yourself too. Don't put yourself on fire to keep someone warm.

“What's one hard truth that you had to learn recently?” Let me go first... No matter how long you've known somebody, they can switch up at anytime but life must still go on regardless.

Bro, you didn't switch up. You stopped watering broken connections.

Build the woman you want a future with. Don't just sleep with her, teach her how to love and respect you well, communicate with her, let her know what you like & dislike. Help her to learn skills, support her emotionally, educate her financially and support her dreams.

Above all, make sure you are taking good care of your health. You have just one body. Just saying.

When you're facing challenges, you need something/someone to uplift and inspire you. When you're achieving success, you need a reminder to be humble. Having someone or something to provide these reminders is vital for growth and well-being.

At your lowest, you need something or someone to give you hope. At your highest, you need something or someone to remind you to be humble. Everyone needs someone or these two things at every point in their life. That reminder is very necessary.

Man, if she has a proper Dad figure in her life, marry her. It's a jackpot if she has a good respectable connection with him. She will know how to treat you better.

#BoysLivesMatterToo “Slowly, men are dying”, not just from illness, but from loneliness, shame, and the pressure to ‘be fine.’ We teach boys to hide pain and men to face it alone, and the cost is lives cut short. Compassion, honest conversation, and safe spaces aren’t soft — they’re life-saving.

Once you stop thinking with your d!*k. You will realize most of these women aren't worth wasting your time on.

I have seen how far a lady can go if she genuinely wants a man. That's why I never advice my fellow alpha men to waste their time chasing a nonchalant lady. Become valuable asf, build yourself and your empire and see who do the chase. Lock in bro!

Peace 🕊️

If someone trusts you, don't mess with that privilege. We can achieve more as blacks if we keep trusting and being loyal to ourselves.

In a world where a girl-child is considered more valuable than a boy and where women are always favored over men. I want to be part of the few men who actually see, feel, and talk about the loneliness, pain, and absence men go through. The few places where men can feel seen.

“So you were told to leave earthly things and seek heaven where you will be rewarded with earthly things (mansions and roads of gold)” Still thinking about this🤔

Not everyone, but sometimes we need a break from life. Not dead, not in a coma, but just a pause from everything. Just to relax, chill, take in nature, be grateful for how far we've come, and analyze how everything is going, whether to restrategize or push harder.

Man is proud of himself.

Boy, Nyame ayɛ bi oo