Growing up our players have all been on teams for 10 or more years. They've had good teams and bad teams, good teammates & bad teammates and everything in between. We want them to use all of that experience to recognize the differences, we want them to feel like they're an
expert in Team.
A value like selflessness, this idea that when making decisions- team comes first, self comes second - you get this done and it solves 10 different problems.
Today is the tomorrow that you worried about yesterday.
And here you sit, worrying about tomorrow, but making it through today.
Don't allow worry to take away the joy of today.
You can't inherit character.... it doesn't matter how tall or talented your parents were, you gotta do your own growing and be accountable for your own actions.
If you are lucky enough to coach an athlete for 4 yrs, you'll have them (on average) less than 5% of their lifetime.
If your presence in their life didn't make an impact, your absence won't make any difference.
Great leaders are great COMMUNICATORS.
Simon Sinek said great communication is both,
"listening in a way that allows people to feel heard, and speaking in a way that people can hear - as opposed to triggering them"
Coaches - your legacy is determined by the EXPERIENCES you create for your players.
What will the story be years from now, based on their experiences with you today?
"The most dangerous thing is silencing your own voice just to be accepted. Peace only comes when you stop auditioning for other people's approval."
from The Daily Coach