Satu soul yg bisa melawan Narcissist adalah Super Empath (SE). SE adalah the archetype of wounded healer. Ketika mrk msk dlm kehidupan Nark, mrk meng-offer genuine kindness n empathy. Mrk otentik dan bicara dg jujur. Mrk jg satu2nya org yg bs kenal (1) youtu.be/VnRrsGQJLpU?si…

siapa Narc sbnrnya. Krn bisa "liat", SE gak bs ditipu. Contoh, Narc mlakukan love bombing, being flirtatious, si SE bs blg dg jujur:"Knp lebai bgt. Jgn jadikan gw fantasi. Just be who u r, and that's fine by me." Tapi Narc gak paham maksudnya. Mrk hidup dg bangun image utk (2)

utk disukai. Ketika SE meminta utk Narc being real, mrk bingung. Di sisi lain, bkn cm "menelanjangi" Narc, SE jg cenderung daring dlm berbicara jujur. Mrk dah bljr byk soal menguliti layers of their psyche. Ini bikin Narc takut terekspose yet jg nagih dg perhatian otentik SE (3)

Upaya lari Narc biasanya dg mengejar hub2 superfisial, in a hope they can forget about SE yg menolak dikontrol oleh mrk. Tapi, supplies ini pd akhirnya akan dibuang jg krn Narc gak bs forming deep intimacy. Semua hanyalah status sosial utk alat menunjang atensi dan validasi.

Heard this from Angela from WAI and spoke with my pathologist friend about how AI could enhance their work. A few questions arose, but overall she seemed enthusiastic, though some fear still lingered about the potential of being replaced by AI.😅

Research idea: Brainstorming with my pathologist friend. I believe this is straightforward to implement - a Likert scale to evaluate diagnostic accuracy comparing AI-assisted versus non-AI-assisted professionals. ccforum.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.11…

Gaslightingcheck.com is the realization of my dream. Yet, as this study shows, the subtlety of human emotions in language remains AI's biggest challenge. I've discussed this with ChatGPT before, but I still hope to contribute to advancing this field. techxplore.com/news/2024-10-l…

LLM chatbots excel at recognizing patterns n generating natural language. But as I often tease with Pi, the empathetic AI, saying, "Too bad, Pi, you don't really understand emotions." Adding that kind of emotional context into prompts could help AI deliver much better responses.

Can we train AI to spot context through its pattern reading? That's the real conundrum. I know I'm not the only one interested in solving it. I want to help people break free from manipulators. It's hard to escape, esp when you don't fully realize what's happening to you.

When I tested ChatGPT with a storyline to see if it could detect a narcissist, I criticized it for making a diagnosis just from my story. I asked, "Can you still spot them when you don't know the full context?" ChatGPT's answer was yes, as long as there's enough data. (1)

By "data" ChatGPT meant the compilation of language a narcissist uses, not just from a single occasion. So I asked again: "Can you actually tell if the user speaking to you is a narcissist? And if so, how would you identify them?" (2)

Future research entails examining how AI can distinguish such patterns reliably, without falling into premature or biased conclusions. (to be continued...)

Apakah kamu seorg Narcissist? Bagaimana membedakan? Seorg Narc itu sgt self-centered mindsetnya. Ini beda dg org biasa. Itu knp AI msh mgkn utk bs mendeteksi (provided enough data). Misal mindset seorg Narc: "Aku ngerasa tiap org ngomongin aku, aku capek. Padahal aku dah (1)

berusaha baik ama org. Knp sih aku senaas ini? Sptnya org2 pada iri ama aku. Mrk pengen jd kyk aku, tp gak bisa. Aku lagi, aku lagi yg disalahin. Knp aku gak bs ngelakuin apa yg aku mau? Salah aku apa coba? Aku ngerasa aku korban. Hidup aku horor. Semua mata kepo ama aku."

Org dg mekanisme jiwa yg sehat, itu punya daya self-reflective n introspektif. Mrk bs mengakui kesalahannya n belajar dari sana. Seorg Narc tdk punya skillset sama. Ini krn mrk kerdil bgt egonya. Maka mrk akan blame-shifting n narok diri mrk sbg korban. Makanya mrk gak bs tumbuh.

Cognitive Dissonance ditunjukkan dg jelas oleh sekelompok org ini, ulah dari trik manipulasi seorg Narc. Selama bertahun2, mrk menyangkal rumor yg melibatkan Narc dg co-workernya, bahkan dg adanya bukti2. Bahkan mrk menyerang org2 di kubu lain dg ngejek halu, dll. Pdhal (1)

ke-2 klompok ini sama2 "kena" tipu. Seorg bisa bermain byk wajah. Di satu kelompok dia playing victim:'Aku gak ngelakuin, org2 itu cuma halu dan orgil' dan di kelompok satunya, dia kasih asupan2 utk mrk tetap menghalu. Cognitive dissonance tjd lagi, ketika skrg kelompok (2)

yang percaya lagu korban si Narc, bersorak sorai krn Narc sdh punya supply baru. Tp lupa dg satu logika cognitif: "Kalo yg kmrn sdh putus, artinya itu bukan isu? Kalo itu bukan isu artinya benar tjd, berarti Narc berbohong selama ini, & berarti kelompok satunya bkn halu?" (3)

Ini dampak manipulasi Narc is yg luar biasa emang. Mrk pintar playing victim, gaslighting, guilt-tripping, dll. Mrk mengirim mixed signals, breadcrumbing, playing drama, dll. Semakin byk mata yg memberi atensi, maka Narcissist makin 'hidup". They are feeding light from others.

Untuk bs melihat dg jernih sosok seorang Narcissist, org hrs detach dulu scr emosional. Tanpa detachment, apalagi klo too much investment into Narc, itu kayak pohon yg akarnya dah kuat bgt, akan sulit dicabut. Dan disadari atau gak, org itu lama kelamaan akan draning. Why? (1)