i immediately go silent when something upsets or hurts me. it's a coping mechanism i have developed over time. instead of expressing my anger or frustration, i simply withdraw and try to process my emotions in private.
stop acting like “anak bayarin utang ortu & nanggung adek” is wholesome. it’s not.
if anything, it’s a sign that the parents should’ve taken a finance class before having kids.
yk what, maybe i'm just acting all strong and unbothered because i'm trying to hide the fact that i actually hate being ignored and seen as an independent person who can always find my own solution.
Lately banyak yang bikin gw gedeg tapi setelah gw pikir lagi gak deh gw buang energi negatif cuma2 ke hal irelevan karena gw inget musuh sesungguhnya itu tikus tikus negeri