love urself, karena kalau bukan kita sendiri ya mau siapa lagi🫶🏻

Stop explaining yourself.

make the next 6 months count 💛

I hate feeling like im forcing someone to talk to me.

That “ignoring each other” game can really turn into never talking to each other again.

That was pointless, we should've just stayed strangers.

If they take too long to reply, go to sleep. If they don't call, turn off your phone and enjoy the rest of your day, don't wait around like your whole world depends on them. Instead, do things that make you feel good, go for a walk, listen to music, rest, or spend time with

I’m not built for casual relationships and flings. I respect people who enjoy this and can separate emotions from it.I know myself I get attached, I invest deeply, I care intentionally. And pretending not to feel would only break me in the end.

Stressing over a man is pointless. Their choices are out of your control, and their behavior isn’t about you. All you can do is pray for the right partner and remove anyone who doesn’t truly care.

Breakups hurt, but you know what really hurts? Trying to "make it work" with someone who's repetitively proven they don't care about you.

If you pay enough attention you can tell when someone isn’t really feeling you. They can be completely obsessed with you & still ghost you. Interest & attraction aren’t moral indicators. If you really want to know who they are… wait. Let me explain…

Ppl don’t always speak from who they are. They speak from who they want to be. Language is filtered. Behaviour isn’t. It’s memory in motion. Their devotion won’t be revealed in how hard they fall, But in how often they return.

How they hold space for your wholeness, not just your softness. How they honour your pain, not just your pleasure. Commitment is the only thing that asks us to be moral. It’s not about how much someone wants you. It’s about what they choose to build with you…over time.