By the way never let your spark die off in a relationship, if you used to tell your partner sweet nothings and you stop they have missing piece, if it was adequate time keep it , if it was outings keep them up, if it was SEX do more otherwise 🥲
I put a lot of effort & intention into my life & it does agitate me a bit when people want to be apart of it & think no effort will be required… Chopped.