a man who only has eyes for you is a form of spiritual protection you didn’t know you needed. because a man with a wandering gaze will drive you to doubt your radiance and steal away your physical and spiritual beauty.
Decentering dating has skyrocketed my self-confidence. I just be outside doing whatever, wherever, wearing whatever I’m comfortable in that day, without a care in the world if being perceived as attractive or worrying if I’m supposed to meet my person that day. I’m just free.