You can always do you 😂 just not with me

lying to me about something small will have me questioning every single thing you say.

don’t let nobody treat u less than u deserve no matter how bad u love em

there’s not a single person on the face of this earth that is worth you laying awake at night feeling like you’re not good enough, not a partner, not a friend, not a family member, not a boss, not a co-worker.

you cannot get mad at your partner for expressing what upsets them....even if it isn't deep to you, it may be a serious matter to them. genuine consideration is key.

It’s a MAN out here willing to do whatever for you sis... NEVER SETTLE!!!

I want my kids to have the best dad in the world

The biggest ick, an emotionally avoidant man with no accountability, no real empathy, and a masters degree in victimhood. They have a way of behaving like they’re deep, like they feel everything but look closer, you realise you’re the only one doing the emotional labour. 7

You’ll find yourself apologising for emotions they caused. You’ll explain basic human decency like it’s a philosophy lecture. You’ll sit in silence wondering if your needs are delusional.

You’ll hear phrases like: “You’re too sensitive.” “I didn’t mean it like that.” “You always twist what I say.” These aren’t just excuses. They’re exits from accountability. They’ll hurt you and mourn themselves.

They’ll abandon you mid-sentence and convince you it was for your own good. They will betray you emotionally, then cry about how hard it is to be misunderstood. They know what they’re doing. They need to believe their story more than they need to care about yours.

You’ll feel exhausted from explaining the same thing ten different ways, none of which land. Not bc your words aren’t clear. But bc your pain requires them to do something they’ve spent their whole life avoiding: emotional responsibility.

They might not raise their voice. They might not cheat. They might be loyal in every visible way. But the emotional malnourishment runs so deep, you’ll forget what it feels like to be understood. You’ll start to think your standards are too high.

don't apologize to me if you can't change what you are sorry for

lowkey wanna order a dozen donuts

Everything is so overwhelming lately I wanna disappear

Not being heard out sucks. How can i even try to explain myself

I’ll nvr understand why I wasn’t good enough to try for

Learning to sit back and let people do what they want because if my feelings mattered that weird shit wouldn't even be considered

Covering up for someone just cause they’re “family” is crazy. Especially knowing what kind of person they are is more sad. Says a lot about the kind of person you are.