I just realized people who overexplain themselves aren’t looking for validation. They’re just used to not being believed - forced to prove their memories, their pain, their worth, their truth - until they’re exhausted from just existing.

People who have deep internal hatred for children are people who should be on a watchlist and exiled from society

empathy burnout is so real i'm tired of understanding people

In my era of giving up on people. No more seeing the best in them, no more excusing their behavior. I accept you as you are and reject you.

This isn’t “OnlyFanification” this is straight up sexual exploitation. Someone who has to have sex with their landlord to avoid homelessness is not consenting to that sex

You are employable. You are loved. You are enough.

ppl just be too late man. its too late. i dont want it. i wanted it when i wanted it. i dont want it anymore.

MY RAPIST KILLED HIMSELF!!!!

I will give up on someone very quickly now. I no longer stay around trying to coach grown people on how to have empathy.

It’s really so easy to let go of people because as much as I love people, I rarely need them. Once you commit an unfriendable offense, it’s sooo easy to free you and just move on. Less emotional labor for me 🙏🏽

It takes skills and grace to literally ignore shade and never respond or give it the reaction people are looking to get from you.

Her statement is perfect. Not everyone will be conventionally beautiful, just as not everyone is tall, fast, or born with a stunning voice. That’s normal. What’s not normal is how women who aren’t beautiful are punished, not met with neutrality but with cruelty and rejection.

I've never met a woman that hasn't been sexually abused or harassed at least once in their life. That's how crazy it is.

Or they’re just neurodivergent — ND culture normalizes open communication & info dumping. You can tell this is an exclusively neurotypical take because NT culture normalizes a lot of “say one thing but mean another” & covert, scheming, inauthenticity in their communications.

As an ND, I feel it’s a waste of my time & mental power to do such gymnastics; to me, it’s more efficient & “high IQ” that everyone has the full context needed to understand/cut to the chase. Learned the hard way folks operating from ableism & ethnocentrism don’t see it that way.

These quietly imposed “you’re expected to know this without anyone telling you” social norms lead to neurodivergents, immigrants, foreigners, atypical thinkers, etc. dealing with social misjudgments & ostracization. I’m a big fan of appraising each person on an individual basis.

mind you i have not spoken to this man since i ended things in april…..