Say no to unhealthy relationships. If they don't reciprocate, no. If they're inconsistent, no. If they're unstable, no. If their words don't match their actions, no. If they don't apologize and change their behavior, no. If they blame, gaslight, judge, lie, or manipulate, no.
Let me repeat.
The power to sustain a relationship/marriage, lies mostly in the hands of a woman.
And the power to lead the relationship/marriage effectively, lies in the hands of the man.
And he cannot lead effectively, if he doesn't have a loyal & supportive follower.
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Reminder:
You can find a girl like her within days.
Pretty girls are EVERYWHERE.
She won’t be able to replace you in a lifetime,
Because successful men are RARE.
You’re the prize.
Stop dating people who can't afford basic necessities like transport, data, food, and clothes. They aren't ready for a relationship.
Focus on improving yourself first. Don’t become a burden to someone else."
That money you want to use to carry your selfish girlfriend of yours out this weekend, send it to your mother.
Always remember;
Your mother can never tell you;
"What have you ever done for me?"
But your girlfriend can!
If we're dating, I want to be your second priority. Your first priority should be you—your ambitions, your life, and your future. Stay focused! I want the best for you. Don’t let me be a distraction; let me be your motivation, your support, and your partner in growth.
No matter how much you invest in her.
If she's attracted to someone else,
She will never appreciate your efforts.
Women are loyal to their feelings, not your sacrifices.
Stop dating people who can't afford basic necessities like transport, data, food, clothes. They aren't ready for a relationship. Stop dating boke girls.
And you as a broke guy, stop trying to proving to a broke girl that you're not broke.
Always be quick to let women go.
She doesn’t want the relationship anymore? Let her go
She constantly disrespects you? Let her go
She’s playing hard to get? Let her go
You’re not Pharaoh, wish her the best and let her go.
Reminder - avoid broke women or women from poor backgrounds
Stop dating struggling girls. It is very easy for them to get persuaded
They all have the mindset of, "If my man can't do it, another man will"
You don't need that chaos in your life
Learn OR perish!!!
Michael Jackson in one of his songs said "if you can't feed a baby, don't have a baby".
I wonder why you, a struggling young girl, with big dreams for herself.
Will stupidly give a man somewhere, the chance to make you a single mother.
You are not a victim my dear.
Dating was supposed to lead to marriage but, girls are now dating for survival. Which is fine.
So, as a guy, if you know she's with you for the money, YOU DON'T OWE HER FAITHFULNESS or COMMITMENT. There are other ladies who are interested in taking her POSITION if she leaves.