Y’a des séparations faut seulement dire merci à Dieu

What the fuck.

centuries of women before me have yearned to taste the freedom i get to experience nowadays by being able to say no to marriage/children and choose my own path with full agency, and i will never take that for granted. they live through me

i hope no man out here saying i was crazy over him bc i’m just crazy in general. never over no man

J’AI HURLÉ

I was in a relationship like this. Engaged even. He often said “so if I do this (basic home chores) you’ll give me some sex?” Because he knew it was just for him. I just lay there hoping he’d be done soon feeling like I was being raped/used for his masturbation every time.

If you’re a father, everything you do for your child is NOT a favor to the mother, it’s YOUR responsibility.

They never separate the sex worker from her work though 🙂

There has to be more to African men’s lives than food and nyash