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Tọlá Belva

@tolabelva

Writer • Poet • Human Butterfly

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Letting go is hard, especially when you’re deeply connected to people and experiences. But growth requires release. Like a butterfly, you’re shedding what no longer serves you—stepping into freedom, ease, and a version of yourself that truly aligns with who you’re becoming.

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Today, I came across a tweet that asked, ‘How do you deal with anxiety?’ A simple question, yet one that demanded reflection. I didn’t want to give a rushed answer, so I sat with it, let it settle, and gave it space to breathe. After some thought, this is what came to me: When

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The right people don’t need to be chased. They choose you just as naturally as you choose them. The ones meant for you won’t need constant proof of why you’re worth it.

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You’re not asking for too much; you’re just asking people who can’t give what you need. Protect your energy and give your love to those who truly value you.

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Above all things, be kind and spread love. You never know what pain someone is hiding behind their smile, and even the smallest acts of kindness can make a world of difference. Speak with compassion, listen with an open heart, and love without hesitation. The energy you put into

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I will forever be a fan girl of love. The way it heals, the way it transforms, the way it makes life more beautiful. No matter how many times the world tries to change my mind, I will always believe in the magic of love.

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One profound truth is everyone needs someone. Love, at its core, is meant to be experienced, whether through companionship, friendship, or deep connection. If you’ve found that person, may your love continue to flourish and deepen with time. And if you’re still searching, may

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I choose to live on my own terms, not out of arrogance but out of self-acceptance. I am allowed to be myself, unapologetically, without carrying the weight of other people’s opinions.

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There comes a time when, after carrying the weight of other people’s opinions for so long, you finally decide to set it down. Not out of defiance but out of realizing you were never meant to live in the smallness of their expectations. The voices of doubters grow quieter, not

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It’s a rare kind of magic to find someone who doesn’t rush your bloom. Someone who sits with you in the hush of your healing, shows up in the small, unnoticed ways, and reminds you that softness can be safe. Sometimes, the most healing love isn’t loud. It’s steady, patient, and

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I hope you give yourself grace, not just when you’re doing your best, but especially when you feel like you’re not. You were never meant to have it all figured out. You’re meant to feel, to learn, to grow, and to be gentle with the parts of you still unfolding.

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After holding the weight of people’s opinions for too long, you begin to feel the ache in your spirit— not from rebellion, but from truth. You set it down. Quietly. Not to prove a point, but because you’ve outgrown the spaces built by someone else’s limits. The voices that once

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Make silence your new power. Not the kind that hides, but the kind that listens, observes, and chooses peace over the urge to prove a point. Let the fire in your soul speak in ways thunder never will.

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The ability to simply say “okay” and keep it moving is an underrated superpower. You get to a blissful phase in life where you’re unbothered, drama-free, and no longer interested in proving a point.

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To anyone feeling out of place in their circle or environment, remember you don’t have to stay where you feel small. It’s okay to outgrow spaces that no longer align with who you’re becoming. Find your people, whether online or in soulful corners of the world that feel like home.

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Finally watched Netflix’s Forever this weekend, and it moved me deeply. It’s a tender story about two Black teens in South LA finding love, identity, and freedom in their own way. No forced trauma. Just honest storytelling filled with culture, language, music, style, and