Love your partner in THEIR love language. NOT yours.

what makes a man attractive is not his face or body its his total devotion and obsession to one woman and one woman only

It's crazy how you can't even address real-life problems as grown adults anymore. You try to talk about what hurt you, what confused you, what bothered you, and it turns into cutting each other off.. raised voices, disrespect, or somebody shutting down.. We are really out here

when you realize people do weird and evil things to get a reaction out of you, you learn that silence is more powerful than proving a point.

A wise woman once said, "As a woman, I don't ask to be spoiled, but if my presence doesn't inspire you to treat me like a princess & take care of me delicately & affectionately, we won't go much further!" That changed the way I see things.

WOMAN TO WOMAN: Date sweet men. Men who are calm. Men who can articulate themselves. Men who are soft spoken. Men who are patient with you. Men who respect both you and themselves. Men who are kind to you. Men that are gentle. Men who have self control. Men who protect your

I want the kind of money that lets me show up for my people. Even if I can’t fix everything, i want to at least soften the moment. To send food. To send transport fare. To send ice-cream money on a hard day. I’m tired of only saying “sorry.”

I saw a video that said having a naturally intimidating aura is exhausting because people start competing with you for no reason while you’re literally just breathing. I’ve never felt so seen.

Me looking at the invisible camera when I gotta experience stupid shii

Sometimes I just wonder how life would've been if i had the chance to really live instead of healing from so much shit.

can't find something that ain't there

thank youuu 🤭🥹❤️‍🔥

Marrying a kind partner also changes who you become. You grow softer without becoming weak. You learn patience, empathy, and better communication. You respond instead of reacting. Over time, you become a calmer and more grounded version of yourself.

we can go passion for passion

The ability to adjust your vocabulary based on who you're speaking to is a valuable life skill that many people lack.

If she tells you she likes flowers, she doesn’t mean she wants flowers right now. What she’s really telling you is: remember it, and one random day, for no reason, give her some because you felt like it.

I used to be big on addressing stuff because I felt like communication would fix things. But it's so draining now. Let people be who they are and move on.

When people don't consider you in the same way you consider them, let them go. There's actually so many people in the world that can match your energy and love you the way you love.

keep your mind to yourself