If you meet a man when he's supposed to be busy chasing his career & building his future, & he's always the one reaching out to you. He's not serious with his life. A serious minded man thinks more about his financial stability than he thinks about his emotional stability.

I recall when I bought a cheap necklace for my gf(now wife). A "friend" of mine mocked her. She said she was happy with the gift. Today, she has expensive necklaces. And she doesn't even flaunt them for the gram. End

If I decide to ask Gen Z men to drop their handsome pictures, just like I did for the women. We will be seeing some men who use lip gloss, rub "tiro", sag their pants, keep long finger nails, use snap chat filters & some bleaching their skin. Ladies, how are you coping? End.

If you're in a long distance relationship, two thing are mostly sure for you. 1) your partner/spouse will cheat on you. 2) you're hoping they cheat on you but still don't forget you. Those in close distance relationship can't even boast that they have it all figured out. End.

Always remember. In choosing a life partner, you must be selfish with your choice because you're expected to be selfless in marriage. Whatever choice you make, if you fail to be selfless in marriage, you'll live in a broken marriage, even if you are not divorced. End.

I've really turned into an online father to many. "Àgbà, my wife gave birth today" "Àgbà, I lost my dad/mom this morning" "Àgbà, I just got a job" "Àgbà, I lost my job" "Àgbà, I just lost my virginity" "Àgbà, I'm pregnant" "Àgbà, it's my birthday" "Agba, I need sex" End.

Let me tell you all something you may find hard to agree with me. The reason why we have men that are "weak" is because men find it hard to see the women they feel they've "conquered", being "conquered" by another man.

When you choose your wife, you've choosen your destiny! Before choosing her, choose her mother. End

If a woman is making sexual passes at you, don't enable her. Especially if you don't wish to sleep with her. Keep receipts, & wait. Never try to act "mature" with her. The foolishness of a woman is your weakest link, as a man. They don't know how to handle rejection. End.

Even olosho. You'll rise an olosho. Take her to the club, buy her drinks and food. Make her very comfortable. Then after knacks, she'll still expect you to pay her in full. She'll not remember to give you discount for all the monies you spent on her in the club. End.

A lot of men are so unkind to oloshos. Na oloshos deflower most men ooo. One olosho fit don deflower 100 men. And the men go dey feel like don. Na olosho teach most mean how to wear condom sef. All hail oloshos! Una go soon shine. End.

Even if you learn nothing else from me, please learn this. Legitimate ways of living is the best legacy that you can bequeath to your children. Even if you die poor trying. You can forget me and everything that I stand for. But never forget this one. End.

When a family knows that their son is a good husband material & would be a good father, they'll protective of him, & scrutinize the women in his life. Not throwing "incentives" at you, so that you will get married to him. But your ojú kòkòrò will not let you be great. End.

Asides cheating, another thing you will do, that your husband will extremely frown at, is begging for money from men. Whether you've anything sexual with them/not. Including from your brothers. Before you do that, you must seek his consent, or he'll suggest it to you. End.