I don’t play about myself... you will not mistreat, halfway, or bare minimum me.

i cut ties for peace, not for beef.

Relationships set me back. I lose my focus and sometimes even myself and I can't afford that right now. I do so much better alone.. and it's so much more to life! My own time will come.

I have full confidence knowing that I’m about to live the prayers I once whispered to God.

i knew I matured when I was okay with nobody knowing my side of the story and letting them live with whatever version of me they have in their mind

Too many women lose themselves trying to make an ungrateful man happy.

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sometimes it’s better to just let things be, let ppl go, don’t fight for closure, don’t ask for explanations, don’t chase answers, and don’t expect ppl to understand where you’re coming from.

love yourself a little extra right now. You're balancing so much, handling things no one sees, and doing your best. you deserve grace.

My hyper independency actually comes from the lack of urgency people have when it comes to me. Moving too slow = never mind i got it.

if you choose A WORKING WOMAN, you must accept that she CANNOT manage a house full time by herself. if you choose A HOUSEWIFE who can take care of and manage the household completely, you need to accept that she DOES NOT MAKE MONEY and you will have to provide for everything. if

Letting go of a relationship that you really wanted to work

Two things I can’t stand: - when I bring an issue up and that’s the moment you remember when I did something to you. - people that cannot take accountability, own up and apologise. They’d rather try to justify and explain their way out of the situation.

detach. let it end. accept the situation. move on.

Be careful with the idea that ‘everyone is replaceable.’ Some people are truly one of a kind. If you lose them, life won’t hand you another version you don’t meet certain souls twice.

unfortunately, i am my family’s most independent and distant child so i will sit here by myself, act like i don’t need anyone, and fight every single problem by myself

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for relationships to last you really gotta see your partner's point of view of things .and be considerate. And be willing to grow. people can learn from their mistakes it's all about communication.