When you finally realize that someone’s behavior has more to do with their internal struggle than it ever did with you, you learn grace. You also naturally learn detachment as well.
Ladies, You are not someone's second choice. Not someone's "maybe" or "what if" OR "I'm not ready for marriage". You don't deserve that. believe me you are too beautiful for that mess. You are WIFEY, the dream girl. You Deserve a man who knows exactly what he wants, that's it!
When Kobe Bryant said his insane level of confidence came from knowing he’d done all he could to prepare, it taught me that anytime I’m nervous it means I didn’t prepare enough.
boundaries with yourself look like:
- having a bedtime
- not believing all thoughts as truth
- eating foods that make you feel good
- doing hard things in the moment to create your desired future
- sticking to your word
Breakups hurt. You know what REALLY fucking hurts? Trying to”make it work” with someone who has PROVEN to you TIME AND TIME AGAIN that they do not give a fuck about your feelings. THAT hurts
Ladies, There is a big difference between a Man who kinda likes you & a man who FULLY Desire you to be his WIFE & wanna build a future with you. They are two separate things. Some of y'all keep chasing men who love your presence & attention but have no desire to fully commit !!