Being a self-aware person doesn't mean I view myself as a good person. I think a lot of people get that confused. It literally means that I am vigilant of both my light and dark side. I have also made peace with my flaws even though I'm always working through them.
If you discover that the person you’re dating is a LIAR? That should disgust you. It should make you sick. Either they’re deluded, they do not respect you or they truly think that you’re a big stupid idiot who will believe their lies. Which part of that screams “life partner?”
"Wow you beef with everyone" nah you anticipated on one sided beef, intentionally misread me in order to create said "beef" because you're incapable of conceptualizing a fucked up world while simultaneously cultivating a better one.
Not my problem and I'll no longer be yours 🩷
you should be able to tell a friend they’ve upset you and then bounce back. but too many people don’t know how to take accountability, will be quick to jump on defensive mode, and completely invalidate your feelings. that’s why some things are better left unsaid.