So many women lost their best years loving the wrong man.

every three minutes, another Monday rolls around. this is not sustainable.

I hope I marry a man who understands the magic in little things. Someone who knows that holding my hand when I’m nervous can calm a storm within me. Who brings me flowers not because it’s a special day but because my heart feels heavy. Who never lets a disagreement end without

This year, I'm ending up with a man who believes loving me is part of his purpose.

Kunini sisithi siyekeni

I miss when men just organically took care of women. I’m not talking about financially but in general. You see a woman putting air in her tire & immediately take over. Heavy groceries? You carrying them. With no expectation of anything in return. No motives, just men.

Behold, the attachment.

Ah if you’re still gonna book a valentines dinner now? Late late late. Those planned relationships have everywhere fully booked

I love the sudden realization that I don’t have to put up with a single thing I don’t like.

I hope your partners go big for you guys this weekend 🥹🥹

I love when women start businesses and make their husbands the employee of the month lmao

I used to think like this and I know I’m projecting from personal experience but knowing a man when he’s broke or still building is not knowing him at all actually. Of course he’ll be everything you need him to be - but wait till he gets his money right you’re gonna see bears.

Men want peace but then half of the time, the 'peace' they're begging for is silence while they misbehave.

Bring gifts to the quality time.

also if your partner is comfortable with watching other gents go above and beyond for their partners this weekend , umlahle.

Terrible partners will literally cost you your life

I love Valentine’s Day discourse 😭

I think he has to really like you, a lot!! Your existence should inspire him to do things for you. When a man likes you he pays attention and just wants to give you a better world. I’ve said it so many times that when a man truly loves you ? Your job is to exist.

This >>> An unavailable man who expects you to be a super woman and still submissive🥴