I used to be so sad when people couldn’t see the good in me or how I was for them. 🥹 Then recently it’s like God said to me “I made it so they couldn’t see you like that because they wasn’t meant to view you like that”.

Having your own crib feelsss so great 😩😍fresh out the shower, sitting in your robe, plate of food from a recipe you learned from tik tok, candle burning, glass of wine, your favorite show playing. Just so peaceful and relaxing 🥺.

relationships are for people who have their life together. you have no business dating if you’re fighting demons... and losing. 1/2

Honestly I wanna be outside next year, and i dont mean clubs & parties. i mean traveling, hiking, picnics, trying new restaurants etc…

I’m officially at the age I don’t wanna be around people who aren’t self aware. continuously putting themselves in bad positions, making bad life choices, toxic ways/lifestyles, no priorities lacking accountability etc.

This my last year being financially irresponsible. I touch way too much money for that shit.

I'm not embarrassed to admit I overplay my part a lot! I just genuinely want to make sure I give out the love I want to receive. I love hard, to the point I hurt my own feelings, which bothers me. I'll never change that aspect of myself because I know I showed up!

Katt Williams Said “if you wanted me to speak more highly of you then perhaps you should have treated me better, You don’t get to narrate MY story of MY experiences with you” nbsss

I'm strict about my boundaries because every time I wasn't, I paid the price. That's a lesson I refuse to learn twice.

When I don’t get reassurance I do unhealthy things that’ll potentially sabotage the relationship 😭 I learned that about myself 😣

A painful lesson I had to learn was: people have the right to no longer be romantically interested in you and it's normal for relationships to not workout, especially in the pre-commitment phase. This forced me to be more careful with how I share my emotions. When I realized that

who tf forgets to reassure someone they’re genuinely into?????????? no one

a mf who cares about u gone always show it, even when yall ain’t seeing eye to eye

she told me that she shuts off her brain whenever she’s with me because she feels safe enough to know everything will be taken care of. THAT is how you’re supposed to make your woman feel idc what yall say

going from having to ask someone for something multiple times to meeting someone who does it effortlessly is yet another reminder of the rewards attached to letting go and making room for better things to find you.

I thugged it out so many years. I just want this one to go my way.

they said nobody isolates more than the oldest daughter that knows no one is coming to save her

& another thing.. I had to learn to stay away from the ppl who made me MEAN or CRAZY or VERY REACTIVE bc l've come to realization that, that's not me & that's not who I wanna be so if you bring it up out of me I gotta dissociate from you! l gotta go.