april wasn't very kind to me tbh and i'm still picking up the pieces. everything i've done this month was to keep myself afloat long enough as i waded through the days like waves during a storm. this may i will find strength to swim with the current than fight against it.
One thing I've realised from extensive therapy is that your 20s are too precious to be insecure or crying over a boy. Go out and looksmaxx, personalitymaxx, careermaxx and be your best version possible. Develop a taste for everything and understand yourself better.
starting over is so much better than staying in the same place that continues to harm or hinder your growth. it might be scary but may always be worth the leap of faith.
Not just that, when teenage girls try to look better, they're slut shamed by teachers, parents and neighbourhood aunties and told to focus on studies. Damned if you do and damned if you don't!
i strongly dislike โwell they didnโt do anything to meโ ass people. yโall will know people are grimy and do things to other people but because itโs not you itโs okay. being an enabler and neutral person isnโt the non-confrontational energy you think it is.
I always find that people who actually like themselves often donโt have the time to pass unnecessary judgment on others bc theyโre too busy living fulfilling lives