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chris wojcik

@chrismwojcik

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Sometimes, I get lost in cycles of going through the motions. It's a more detrimental form of laziness than pure inaction because you still have the illusion of progress. You're doing the right things, but you're not really "doing" them. Your body is present, but your soul is

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One question that I have been asking myself to help with mindfulness is: When is the last time I spent an hour without any sort of social stimulation? Your phone counts.

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The easiest way I have found to cure anxiety is to invest time and energy into what really matters. Meditating, journaling, therapy, and all that stuff are great, but for me, they are just a byproduct of refocusing. Remember the important stuff and get off the hamster wheel of

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Over the last 3 years I have been way less motivated by competition in Jiu-Jitsu. I still enjoy competing, but for a long time, competing and winning medals was the only thing that brought me validation in Jiu-Jitsu. This made me anxious about my Jiu-Jitsu all the time, more

Over the last 3 years I have been way less motivated by competition in Jiu-Jitsu.

I still enjoy competing, but for a long time, competing and winning medals was the only thing that brought me validation in Jiu-Jitsu.

This made me anxious about my Jiu-Jitsu all the time, more
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One idea that always held me back when I was younger was that if I wanted to succeed, I had to always be working. I thought that my work had to dominate my thoughts, so it did. I thought this made me tougher, more dedicated, and “better”. But in hindsight, this sort of total

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One of the mental health tricks that has helped me a lot is to avoid using therapy jargon in conversations. Stop calling everything toxic. Stop talking about your "neurodivergence" like it’s your entire personality. Not every disagreement is gaslighting. You don’t need to look

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If you follow the same path that everyone else does, you will get the same selection of outcomes. On the flipside, if you forge your own path, you’ll spend a lot of time alone. There will be no blueprint. You will feel lost and wonder what’s next. It is a simple choice.

If you follow the same path that everyone else does, you will get the same selection of outcomes.

On the flipside, if you forge your own path, you’ll spend a lot of time alone. There will be no blueprint. You will feel lost and wonder what’s next.

It is a simple choice.
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When I was a white belt, I trained at a gym where I had to bow onto the mat, call the coach "Professor", and I wasn't allowed to ask higher belts to roll. I thought this was dumb, but my training partners said I'd understand when I was a black belt. They said it was about

When I was a white belt, I trained at a gym where I had to bow onto the mat, call the coach "Professor", and I wasn't allowed to ask higher belts to roll.

I thought this was dumb, but my training partners said I'd understand when I was a black belt. They said it was about