If you’re ever feeling grumpy, remember: you JUST DISSOCIATE! If you ignore your feelings other people won’t suspect a thing. Solves all problems.

I think this entirely depends on your unique bottlenecks. There are a few v common bottlenecks (emotional insecurity, IMO), but a long tail of weird shit (eg maybe there’s mold in your house). I would look for where you feel bottlenecked and back-chain. Anxious? Distracted? Sick?

When did you first realize that external validation wasn't going to fill the hole in your heart?

POV: you came to my eye contact party

lol too often I assume that when people post things online they want intellectual feedback no no no not unless they ask

I have an extremely banger thread ready to post but much of my target audience is away at burning man. What should I do? Wait a week?

The way I use massage is to locate tension. Once I find tension, it can be nice to squeeze, but the ultimate goal is to feel into the muscle, learn how to control and relax it, and then just never tense it. I’ve done this successfully with much of my body.

Schelling Point coordination in the wild!

Maybe another example of Visakan Veerasamy’s big accounts play by different rules than small accounts idea: I don’t think I’ve seen many (or any?) popular long tweets from accounts who aren’t already respected.

I'd like to better understand what enables agency. I'm writing a post about young people who have created their own unusual and financially sustainable careers. If this describes you (or someone you know), would you reply?

i'm becoming more powerful

i mostly gave up on trying to read and just grift from friends and mentors who have read the books already honestly it’s amazing

i asked her for an “early testimonial” now that we’ve been working together for 3 weeks… i love my job