I'm confused by the boyfriend vs no boyfriend trend. Because why did you stop putting in your best effort in your upkeep once you got into a committed relationship? Things that make you go hmm..
that āboyfriend airā thing is silly bc a lot of them donāt want to admit they got lazy and stopped putting in effort to appease their man. comfort & complacency in a rship does tends to do that
idk itās a manipulation tactic but some women do naturally have low sex drives & no matter how well you treat themāit wonāt make her want sex more. thatās why sexually compatibility should be taken seriously