Stefan kept his blood problems a secret until they became a problem, despite the fact that it was a risk to Elena, he didn't tell her about his own father's murder, the fact that he killed many of her ancestors, he didn't tell her the depth of his Ripper condition

Stefan Salvatore is a pathological liar. He feels no guilt for lying or hiding the truth and often places the blame on something else, person or changes the subject.

Stelena was toxic and unhealthy, especially in S3 and 4, and I hate it when people, including the characters, sweep everything he did to her under the rug.

Stefan physically threatened Elena once in Season 1 and several times in Season 3. Stefan physically hurts Elena and used it against her.

Stefan always had an idolized version of Elena in his mind (anti-Katherine) and the fact that she was a vampire just didn't cut it, so he hoped that if he adapted her to his mode of existence, he could pretend that things are the same as they were.

The fact that Stefan shrugs his shoulders if Elena dies and hands her over to Klaus without even fighting for her

Aún no olvido como literalmente cierra los ojos mientras se la lleva a sacrificarla en un ritual😂el peor novio de la vida da igual si ella quería dar la vida por sus amigos era un asunto de vida o muerte el debió protegerla a ella y no lo hizo por "respetar su decisión"

Stefan holds Elena's arm and squeezes it for her to release the syringe and pushes her, considering he could have easily taken it out of Elena's hand without being rude to her.

I hate how people, including the characters and especially Caroline, sweep everything bad that Stefan did to Elena under the rug.

Stefan was unable to go against her suicidal decisions, challenge her choices, not out of "respect" for her decision but because he couldn't deal with her being mad at him if he went against it.

Vivo un infierno y aún así nunca perdío la sonrisa ni la fe en las personas no se dejó derrumbar a pesar de que cualquiera en su lugar no habría podido ni con la mitad de lo que vivió ella no perdió la fe en que siempre podía haber algo mejor 🥹

This is one of the proofs that makes it clear that Stefan didn't deserve Elena, Stefan chose his revenge against Klaus instead of Elena.

Stefan doesn't start a relationship with Elena for her benefit, it's all about his desire. But in this beginning, all I hear is Stefan saying: "yes, I could be putting her (Elena) life at risk and I don't know if I can handle it, but I want to"

Stefan is a very manipulative guy, he makes Elena feel bad, he makes her feel guilty, he fights with her for asking someone else for help because he was so useless to notice that Elena wasn't okay

As Paul Wesley said: "If Stefan and Elena ended up together, it would be a NIGHTMARE"

Stefan mass murdered, tortured, and abused people, including Elena, and then failed to take responsibility for it or apologize, even to Elena.

Stefan and Elena's relationship was filled with lies and emotional abuse

It broke my heart to see Elena look sadly in the mirror at Stefan's bite marks, trying to cover them with makeup. Despite all the horrible things that happen to her, manages to get out of bed every day and keep fighting

After Stefan made Elena go through the biggest trauma of her life, he left her alone on the bridge where her parents died saying that the only thing that matters to him was revenge against the Klaus, and it didn't matter if he had to step over Elena