then, one day, it clicks

do you ever just wanna sit outside with someone and talk all night

L'éternelle idole, 1889

One thing I realized is that everything always ends up working out. Sometimes even better than you can imagine. Remember this when you feel like you're in a hard place or you feel like you're being challenged the most. Believe in where you're headed. See the bigger picture.

Drunk peeing w friends is such a bonding moment

I believe people can love you even when they don’t love themselves—love is energy. It might not be healthy or the tenderness you deserve, but they’ll love you the best they’re capable of at that time. You’ll need to choose if the form of love they provide is enough for you.

I don’t think we talk enough about the trauma of not feeling good enough. Never feel like what we give is enough, because we constantly need to always give more to get effort. Never feeling like we are worthy because we chase every chance at being wanted.

Could be us

It’s taking you a little longer because you aren't lying, using people, cheating, manipulating, or selling your soul. Don't rush anything. The slower the process, the deeper the roots, and the stronger the values. It's the journey that matters, not the destination.

Feeling safe in someone’s energy is a different type of intimacy....

if my nipples want to b the star of my outfit who am i to stop them

and I finally did it in 2023 😭

"you smell so good" me:

when a traumatic flashback hits you in the middle of a pretty decent day:

It is a man's job to set the tone in a relationship. A woman feeds off of his energy. This is why showing up for her and being consistent is so important. She can't feel safe with you if you're not leading properly.

Nobody talks about the angry stage of healing. The rage you feel when you realize how much and how long you were taken advantage of. The absolute disgust you feel towards those people that mislead you. It comes in waves. Sometimes you'll feel healed and then it suddenly hits you.

Unfortunately, people are not always going to be brave enough to tell you they're no longer vibing with you. Sometimes, you just have to read the energies, and leave the table. Take some initiative. Let go of the guilt of letting go. Have the courage to walk alone.