Never underestimate a jealous or envious person. They will literally kill you

Your emotional intelligence has saved you in ways you don’t even realize. Some ppl wanted you to know all of the malicious things they did to you behind your back bc they WANT you stuck in cycles of grief and betrayal. They WANT you to be bitter, WANT you to keep replaying the

i think ppl with low self-esteem often unintentionally hurt others because they severely underestimate their impact/presence

One of the best feelings in music is recognizing a sample

Most valuable thing I learned from a senior engineer: How to read a codebase you've never seen. 1. Find where requests come in 2. Follow one path end to end 3. Map the data flow, ignore the logic 4. Only then zoom into the details Took them 10 minutes to teach. Saved me years

The more people hate you, the more others will like you, hate often comes from envy, because you stand out, because you are unique, they resent your difference, but others admire it, they respect your courage, they value your authenticity, and they choose to support you.

the way bob sits in this pic is so badass

Once they find out you ain’t stupid, now you crazy and weird 😂

Interviewed a frontend dev yesterday with 12+ years experience. Didn't know about Suspense boundaries in React 19. Struggled with explaining useTransition. Never used Server Components. But when I asked him to debug a performance issue, his approach was brilliant. Asked the

You gotta cut somebody off the first time they do something weird cuz it’ll only get worse