People lack accountability real bad & then say, “You could’ve just talked to me.” No, I couldn’t. You don’t listen. You deflect. You gaslight. You make me feel like I’m the problem for bringin it up. So I stayed silent to protect my peace 💯 not because I didn’t want to fix it fr

the older i get, the more i reach the conclusion that most problems within a relationship can be resolved with emotional intelligence and good communication, only IF both parties have the same intention: to find solutions.

They don't need to know how your ex boyfriends cheated on you and did you dirty. nor how traumatic your childhood was and how you have a bad relationship with your family. save that for your homegirls if you need to vent that badly

men claim they want “peace” but often that just means no accountability, no pushback, and your silence while they do whatever they want

How your partner reacts to your sadness & things that bother you should tell you all you need to know about how long the relationship should last

You can’t expect a WOMAN to be SOFT, OBEDIENT, AND NURTURING while carrying everything herself, SUBMISSION only comes when a MAN leads with CARE, RESPONSIBILITY, AND SUPPORT.

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Girl to girl, it’s OKAY to give up on a man who isn’t even trying. Life’s too short to waste on someone inconsiderate and mean. You deserve effort, always.

the topic for tn is anxious avoidant control cycle with key components of hyper vigilance & assumption of rejection. Goodnight!

y’all say communication is key but what about comprehension???? DO YOU FUCKING UNDERSTAND WHERE DF IM COMING FROM???

To the man who ruined the peace of a good woman while acting like you did nothing wrong… remember this. The table always turns. The pain you caused will come back to you even worse. Karma keeps every receipt. Keep faking your personality and playing the victim in situations you

NEVER TRUST NO MAN WHO gets upset over your reactions to his actions! You got mad because of what he did & now he’s mad because you reacted. Then he tries to gaslight you by saying you’re always arguing or creating negativity. No, that’s MANIPULATION. That’s narcissistic

This is so cool and informative. It’s been a while since I’ve tested how fast I can read.

Studio Ghibli food looks so delicious

Just apologize when you know that you fucked up. How are you going to be mad at a person for being mad at you when they have a legit reason to be. That's just weird shit, People love to say they are grown until it's time to hold themselves accountable.