I feel like the worst thing that happened to our understanding of gendered oppression was defining patriarchy as all men having the power to dominate women. It's reductive, inaccurate, and helps no one but the very women who want to obscure their patriarchal power

It's normal to experience some anxiety about returning to work after a long break, but if you are feeling overwhelmed, you may be suffering from chronic work stress. Here are the signs most commonly cited in our #WorkInAmerica survey: at.apa.org/mzt

One conversation at a time.

Can you repost and follow so that we can blow past 5K It's taken since our first post on August 12, 2008 to reach 4999 followers. That's an embarrassingly long time but we are still proud and love each of them.

Aargh. So many parents frustrated with their ‘incel’ kids locked in their bedrooms online all day unemployed, rude and morbid. The irony is you could have the next tech genius there but you’ve shown zero interest in his life and his ‘projects’. Talk to your kids. 😓😓😓

Silences, Trauma, Erasure: A Requiem for Blackman Ngoro apartheidstudies.wordpress.com/2019/09/25/sil… via #ApartheidStudies

Phil Mitchell:Specialist Working With Abused Males Men are (1) much more physically protective (99.5%) of women in both war and peace time than they are harmful (0.5%) and (2) much more physically protective of women than women are of men in both war and peace time - this is even written into law and policy on military

New Episode! "Shifting From Debate To Dialogue with Rooken Podesta" We explore embracing the Legitimate Other, I-Thou and Positive Regard which are rooted in botho/ubuntu for transformative relationships. Player links & show notes: mannedupconvos.com/e/139371639718… via Podpage — Podcast Websites

Knowledge is power, and early intervention when signs of distress or dysfunction start to show limits adverse impacts on #mensmentalhealth Know what to look out for when it comes to #BodyDysmorphicDisorder and seek help if needed to get you back on track to #BeTheManYouCanBe

This Woman explains why boys NEED to be outside, play, and exert all this energy

Sharing stories that connect us with the youth at TUT, PTA West campus. I was pleased to see the young men take to invitation to share while the girls mostly asked questions and listened because they believe men and boys don’t talk so this was their opportunity to be heard.

Men in law enforcement experience trauma too but the attitude towards police in our communities make it hard to empathise with some of these men who are meant to protect and ensure the safety of our communities. I am looking forward to sharing this story in April. Stay tuned.

Don't be fooled! Rather check your nuts! 1, 2, 3 ... done! #loveyournuts is #testicular #cancer education in a nutshell #AprilFoolsDay

The Problem of Pathologizing masculinity in South Africa youtu.be/8b4taxj0RrQ?si… via YouTube

Listening to "Suffering in Silence - A Story of Trauma & Recovery with Captain Adam Meyers" at mannedupconvos.com

Suffering in Silence, by Manned Up Conversations🎙 open.substack.com/pub/mannedupco…

Afrikan centred intergenerational dialogues with the brethren isn’t just a necessity, it’s a way of life✊🏾