Honestly being desperate for anything Chomee! Understanding seasons and God & your ancestors timing will save you in so many ways.

detachment doesn't mean to cut them off. it's about removing your expectations and fully embracing their presence without any strings attached. you'll know you're detached when you can fully enjoy their presence without fearing their absence

As a woman, please master the art of detachment.

The final act of love is really leaving someone alone.

When you pray tonight, pray for the strength to stand alone. Ungathembeli kumuntu uzimele wedwa izinto zakho uzilungise wedwa noNkulunkulu wakho. Pray for the strength to make your own decisions ungazingabazi.Ukhulekele ukuma wedwa ungabisemsindweni nezingxabano. Ubenokuthula♥️.

Master the art of being silent, even when there's alot to be said…

I’m about to start telling people "As long as that makes sense to you" when they say shit that doesn’t make sense to me.

Today it marks exactly a year since I stopped visiting my cousins because they never visit me, I was the only one visiting them 💔 it breaks my heart because we grew up as siblings lento yama cousins siyiqala manje. I miss them a lot but I told my self I'm not gonna visit again😭

INTIMACY IN A RELATIONSHIP

Ukuziphatha kahle will never be out of fashion. Nyathela wazi unyathela kephi, khetha amabala Kuze kuthiwe uyazitshela. Don't be everyone's cup of tea. Limit the number of people who have access to you, your personal space and indaba zakho. Work hard, especially if it has to do

The older I grow as a woman, the more I'm learning to consider the concept of marriage as a strategic decision rather than a solely emotional one.

people have suuuch a hard time understanding this

Any person that doesn’t have a kid in this economy is God’s favorite.

no seriously where TF do yall find these niggas

One thing about being a person who is not demanding ,your needs will come last because you are not problematic so anyone could just not have a sense of urgency when it comes to you because with you “everything goes” being too understanding will ruin your life.

Ukmitha

Get a degree and make a career before getting married because there is no guarantee of a healthy spouse and healthy marriage but your degree and career will get you an independent life.

“That your friend you are visiting, how many times has she visited you?”

Girl, normalize cutting a man off the first time he disrespects you. How many times does a man have to let u down before u realize that he's not acting out of character? That IS his character. Not caring about ur feelings or how much u genuinely care about him? That's who he is!

Your mom will face everything with you. It doesn’t matter the relationship but she will face everything with you at the end of the day you will have your mom in your corner.