In literature, there's this idea called "the author's death" it means that when a book is written and released, the author's personal intentions doesn't define it's meaning. Instead, the meaning belongs to the reader. Their interpretation, their imagination, their context.
Thereโs this thing in psychology called the paradox of choice. The more options you have,the harder it is to choose and even after choosing,you still second guess. Thatโs why we spend so long scrolling Netflix and end up watching nothing.
It's crazy that we don't often talk about how when you go through the most traumatic event in your life you still have to wake up, shower, eat, go to the grocery store and live life acting like everything is ok around complete strangers.