That whole notion of “people not owing you” anything is a crock of bullshit. We absolutely DO owe people explanations and reasoning. Especially if we’ve fostered DEEP BONDS.
The silent treatment and ghosting CAN be considered abusive in certain cases.
i’ve never experienced a love like this and let me just say don’t EVER fucking settle, the right person will make you feel like you’re on cloud 9 at all times!