relationships aren't the only thing you heal from. there are a hundred other things that people heal from, from issues w friends to issues w parents, from difficulty in studying to difficulty in fitting in. you don't need to have been in a relationship to heal. so, HEAL.
it's fucking bad enough that victims of SA go through so much trauma and are even unable to talk about it and YOU WANNA BLAME THEM FOR GOING THROUGH THAT? LIKE THEY WANTED TO??????????