It’s not your fault king, there’s someone with a certain ✨important role✨ whose job is to reign actors in so the movie comes out the best it can. Rhymes with Birector.
It's the knowledge that I could be alone if I wanted. But I picked my person, because of a value/connection I could not find with someone else (or alone). And that sustaining that value demands responsibility on my part. That I made the decision to be with her. It's not a prison.
I've said this before but ndizoyiphinda. As a man once you see the ogres women sleep with you have no reason to lack the confidence of speaking to objectively attractive women...