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#powerofrelationshipstaps If you talk to them (students) about their behaviour choices when they’re not in the right place of course they’ll shut down or push back ThomasAcresPS

#powerofrelationshipstaps People often try to solve a problem with a simple solution.. people are complex so guess what ??? No easy fix... relationships are key ThomasAcresPS

#powerofrelationshipstaps Kids would rather be bad than dumb ThomasAcresPS Thomas Reddall High School

#powerofrelationshipstaps Always give 3 acceptable choices? 2 is coercive. Choices within boundaries.. within responsibilities ThomasAcresPS Thomas Reddall High School

#powerofrelationshipstaps The harder you push .. the harder they’ll push back .. ThomasAcresPS Thomas Reddall High School

#powerofrelationshipstaps Consequences never have never will improve a behaviour without teaching a replacement behaviour ThomasAcresPS Thomas Reddall High School

#powerofrelationshipstaps 6 weeks to change a behaviour- neural pathways need to change one step at a time .. but to do it relationship needs to be in play ThomasAcresPS Thomas Reddall High School

#powerofrelationshipstaps The behaviour is the tip of the behaviour- what’s beneath the surface is big & complex ThomasAcresPS Thomas Reddall High School

#powerofrelationshipstaps Do it because it’s the right thing to do, not to avoid pain, not because of what’s in it for me. Build the sense of responsibility.. this takes tome neural pathways etc & must be done within positive relationship ThomasAcresPS Thomas Reddall High School

#powerofrelationshipstaps Our job as educators is to be influential & persuasive.. what we’ve got to offer will make a difference to your life ... to can’t actually make anyone do anything.. you can only control yourself ThomasAcresPS Thomas Reddall High School

#powerofrelationshipstaps Do not give your mental health to anyone .. keep yourself calm & in control before you can help others with their choices .. ThomasAcresPS Thomas Reddall High School

#powerofrelationshipstaps You have to give up control to gain control - if you think you can control anyone else you are sadly deluded .. the only behaviour we can control is our own ThomasAcresPS Thomas Reddall High School

#powerofrelationshipstaps Distract & connect with our tough students ... love them too ThomasAcresPS Thomas Reddall High School

#powerofrelationshipstaps People first kids second students third - they need to know you authentically care ThomasAcresPS Thomas Reddall High School

#powerofrelationshipstaps Talk to kids - what’s going on in their quality world - what makes them feel positive- handshakes & high fives ThomasAcresPS Thomas Reddall High School

#powerofrelationshipstaps Fun is the genetic rule for learning with challenge minus fear = success ThomasAcresPS Thomas Reddall High School

#powerofrelationshipstaps Don’t blame others for your choices .. I cant make you do it .. but what are the consequences of you not doing it It’s not my fault I’ll blame everyone else ThomasAcresPS Thomas Reddall High School

#powerofrelationshipstaps Tell people the behaviour you want not what you don’t ThomasAcresPS Thomas Reddall High School

#powerofrelationshipstaps You control your mental health...NEVERRRR give anyone the power to take that from you!!!!! ThomasAcresPS