I genuinely do not believe people treat you how they feel about you. I believe they treat you based on the state of mind they're in. Some people unintentionally hurt you because they are at war with themselves suffering, and suffering with things that has nothing to do with you.

I was extremely sad for how someone treated me, but then I remembered how kind I am to people, that’s a reflection of me. How people treat me is a projection of their character, and not a reflection of my value. May I always remember that. I'm taking my power back.

I love how you pray for something, it seemingly goes unanswered, and then one day you're at the center of the very thing that once felt impossible. The waiting isn't punishment. It is preparation. The Universe was conspiring so that you can receive the fullness of your request.

My side of the story doesn't matter anymore. Life happened, I healed, but most importantly I learned who deserves a seat at my table and who will never sit at it again.

If you’re not in my life anymore, it doesn’t mean that I think you’re a bad person. I don’t deem people good or bad. I deem people to be safe or unsafe. Aligned or misaligned. Because I’m not available for people I have to protect myself from.

I honestly don't want to be strengthened by difficult situations and be tested anymore. I'm tired. I want soft experiences that teach me the grace and gentleness of the Universe towards me.

everybody is shocked when you start being real serious about your bounderies, like yeah surprise, i'm not a people pleaser anymore so let's see how cool we really are

Is anyone else finding that their spirit is rejecting nearly everything lately? People, situations, and things I could once tolerate, I just can't anymore.

Trauma makes you tolerate people who treat you poorly because you're afraid of losing them. Healing makes you realize that you should be afraid of losing yourself by trying to please everyone.

Nobody tells you how hard it is to rewire your brain so you can allow amazing things to happen to you after so much trauma or hurt. Blessings exist, good people exist, and a safer life exists. Let it happen.

Being mean is so WEIRD to me. I genuinely don’t get any pleasure from embarrassing, belittling, or just overall hurting people’s feelings. Something wrong with some of y’all spirits. You gotta be in a very dark place to feel good by making people feel bad.

Healing taught me that honesty wouldn't ruin a real thing. Speaking about your feelings won't lose you anything worth having. Setting boundaries won't scare off proper people. And authenticity won't cost you genuine relationships.

I’m teaching myself to not overplay my role once I learn my place in people's lives. No matter how much they mean to me. I'm learning that sometimes you don’t mean to people what they mean to you, and that’s okay. Not everyone has the same heart as you.

When you really love someone, you develop a sixth sense for them. You can feel everything they do, no matter how far apart you are. Like when they're in distress. It’s weird but true. This ability works via quantum entanglement, and it is hardwired in our bodies and brains.

Rebranding yourself is so therapeutic. A new look, new habits, new connections.

One thing I came to peace with in 2024 is that I DON'T HAVE TO. I don’t have to go out of my way. I don’t have to be the bigger person. I don’t have to fix anything I didn’t break. I don't have to support those who don't support me. I don't have to try to make everyone happy.

Today I read that butterflies rest when it rains because it damages their wings. It's okay to rest during the storms of life. You'll fly again when it's over.

I don't trust homies who cheat on their woman because they are obviously showin that they can be disloyal at anytime at the right price or with the right temptation. Life is life, fun is fun, but loyalty is loyalty and it’s no way around it.

You'll come across people who seem obsessed with humbling you, despite you minding your business. Don't internalize it. People who repeatedly attack your confidence or try to humiliate you have low self-esteem and are aware of your potential, even if you’re not. Pay them no mind.

I saw a post today that said, "when you finally learn your place in people's lives, your feelings won't get hurt" and Iswear that's the truth and one of the most important life lesson you will learn. Whether it's family, friends, or whoever.