If you lack self-discipline you will easily second guess EVERY decision you make. There is actually no right or wrong answer. Just make the choice that seems most expedient based on information at your disposal and chest whatever comes with it.

Most AI-written CVs: *Sound generic *Rely on cliche phrases *Can’t hold you up during interview pressure Additionally, employers can tell and for many it matters.

Spoke with a family friend yesterday and felt sad. His daughter studied French all the way to MA level, speaks it fluently and has been unemployed since 2023. She is now a POS operator.

Every now and then I see people dishing out advice about “profitable businesses” to start. The moment someone confidently says “food business”, I know the person is merely chasing clout. Food items are highly perishable and the market demand is extremely unpredictable. One day

“Eye-ran,” “nuculer” 🙄

Your child is not doing well in life and you are worried. Wow. All those curses you laid for things as basic as failed exams, chores not well-done, broken plates, a child refusing medicine, being dirty etc. you thought they would just fizzle into nothingness? Well done o.

Your rather violent spouse taps you awake one night after a bad argument the previous day to tell you, “I will kill you one day!” (Not my situation o). What do you do next? There are small kids involved.

Happy International Women’s Day. Today we celebrate the strength, courage, and quiet resilience of women everywhere. Not just the victories, but the battles fought in silence. To every woman building, healing, leading, and rising, keep going. The world is better because you

Unconsidered opinion: women in abusive, unhappy marriages produce the largest number of children.

I know married couples who plan to leave their spouse each time you talk to them…yet most of these marriages keep somehow entering the following year 😂

Does “dating” actually have any value?

“Are my…” “I my…” “Am my…” Language you have been formally taught and immersed in literally from birth o but, “inability to speak English well is not an indication of lack of intelligence.” Okay nau.

I have searched for some of Nigeria's most accomplished executives online. Governors' aides. Federal appointees. Corporate directors. Harvard alumni. What I found would shock you. Not scandal. Invisibility. Your career is not your digital presence. And in 2026, that gap is

Unpopular opinion: The only reason your hired help have not harmed you is because they are good people. You could be the kindest boss, treat them like relatives and the ones spawned by satan will still do you wrong simply because they envy your status. Yes. All the same treat

Please, my dear brothers and sisters, the term is “QUIT notice,” not “QUICK notice.”

Just thought to share this. Young ladies when you marry, get that old bed removed. Just start on a fresh slate.

Unpopular opinion: many young ladies who get involved in the hook up lifestyle do it to ease family poverty. What they don’t know is, it almost ALWAYS backfires. Those siblings judge them; they don’t believe they “owe” them anything; they frequently bad mouth them. Just a word

Deadbeat mums exist too. In fact they were more common back when “divorce did not exist.” They would just wake up one sunny day, go to do some laundry at the stream and never come back. Well guess who never forgave them? The kids they left behind. I see running off and

I don’t believe most people fully grasp the pain they cause others with their bad behavior. They do know they are causing pain but they don’t know how much pain. For instance, many bullies are “just playing.” They think their victims are “too sensitive.” Until they become

So reproductive coercion is real?