No matter the circumstances, there will be things you can and cannot control in your divorce. Focusing on yourself, your mentality and actions will help shift your mindset to working THROUGH the divorce, rather than lingering too long in an unhappy one. #divorcedifferently

After your #divorce, there is a lot of personal and logistical work you have to do before you feel like you are out of the darkness. By putting our son first, we were able to navigate with a common goal of keeping Asher happy and putting his needs first. 💕

✔️ Despite new developments in your new individual lives, stick to the plan: doing what’s best for the kids. Creating a #happydivorce doesn’t happen overnight, but remembering to center your children through this process will keep you on the right path. Keep going. ❤️

“My daughter was struggling with transitions so making her a visual to look at has given her a sense of control over the situation which in turn has given her comfort." Read more via @parentsmagazine → 1l.ink/BQ8QW4B #Coparenting

Here's how you can build a stronger relationship with your #stepkids ❤️ Find one-on-one time ✔️ Look for shared interests ✔️ Support their interests ✔️ Create new family traditions ✔️ Which of these tips resonate with you most?

Mistakes are part of the process. Remind yourself that you are on the same team and focused on what’s best for your kids. It may not feel like it but making mistakes is a sign of #growth. Keep going. ❤️ Read the full blog post → 1l.ink/FC8MS5P

Join us this week as we welcome creator of Divorce Diaries Show, Michele Traina! Tune in to learn about Michele's #divorce journey and how even during the healing process, a little bit of humor can go a long way. ❤️

Shame is a common emotion in #divorce, but it's important to acknowledge the shame you feel, sit with it, and learn from it. Your divorce isn’t the beginning and end of your story, it’s just one moment in it. ❤️ Read more: 1l.ink/4B6G8QM

While the marriage didn’t work, your #relationship with your ex can still be strong & productive. ❤️ A key to a healthy divorce is to avoid a rushed timeline to just “get the divorce done.” Allow the dust to settle & egos to be set aside: 1l.ink/TVFJ5RQ

Huge thank you to CoParenting Past Chaos Podcast for allowing us to share our divorce story. Like us, April and Loren co-parent in their #blendedfamily with the hope that stories like ours can inspire others going through similar situations. ❤️ 1l.ink/436V2F5

Being a #stepparent can be difficult…and that’s okay. ❤️ It’s important to realize that there’s already a family dynamic in place and for you to find a way to fit into it instead of disrupting it. Read more → 1l.ink/WK6N3P5

Divorce can be hard. However, with time, it’s possible to shift your focus toward all the positive things this can mean for your #family. ❤️ Read the full blog to learn more → ourhappydivorce.com/national-divor…

Being able to have transparent and straight-forward conversations with your ex about divorce is just one way to stay amicable and happier through the process. Putting down a positive foundation for yourselves, and for your #blendedfamily, is the start to a healthier divorce.

#HappyFathersDay! It’s a special day for all the dads and father-figures out there, and we hope you enjoy it. Our family is so lucky to have two amazing dads who have both shown us the incredible amount of love they have to give. ❤️

From the very beginning, start to create a solid foundation of expectations and ways you can best work together through your divorce. And keep in mind that there are two people going through the divorce, and each one has their own means of communication. #PositiveDivorce

We are happy that Lesa Koski was able to gain so much helpful insight from #OurHappyDivorce. We share our story in hopes that others will be able to relate, and that they are willing to try anything for their children. More testimonials: ourhappydivorce.com/testimonials/

Holding grudges with your ex is bound to get in the way of your co-parenting. It's time to #practiceforgiveness. Forgive your ex, and yourself as well. Tips for a productive relationship with your ex: ourhappydivorce.com/co-parenting-p…

Divorce may leave you broken-hearted for a while. That doesn’t mean that you won’t find love again. Relationship & Breakup Coach Unreal’s was great on our livestream on the difficulties of divorce, and how it’s possible to find happiness again. #HappinessAfterDivorce

Stepparents have to learn their place in the parenting role to make stronger connections with their kids. One way to be a better stepparent is to look out for the kids & always put them first. Read more ourhappydivorce.com/be-a-step-pare… #OurHappyDivorce