This also goes for a wife too sometimes we can far from God too.

Christians are sometimes the last people to think that the enemy can influence them.

Insecurity often show up as projection.

Trauma often show up as self sabotage.

Triggers often demand control.

Deception often lies in the most innocently seeming things. Error often piggyback from truth.
The devil is a master of disguise.

When we have unspoken expectations they kill our relationships because we hold someone accountable for something they never agreed to do or never agreed to be.

My husband will experience a healed wife. A whole wife. A loyal wife. A praying wife. A wife that prioritises him. A mature wife. A happy wife. A secure wife. A nurturing wife. A godly wife. A let’s travel the world on adventures wife. A submissive wife. A fun wife.

Now more than EVER it’s so important to understand the nature of God and the word of God because fake prophets have multiplied. The enemy devices seem “good”, the teachings sound “wise” but they will lead you astray.

One thing I’ve learned about this in a relationship is you constantly have to be like a little child. Children are pure hearted, they hold no grudges, they love loudly. When you take up a “lowly” position it doesn’t make you weak/less it shows humility.

People hear through the filter of their level of maturity.

I don’t know who needs to hear this but forgiveness will set you free!! Check your heart.

When the enemy wants to destroy you he looks for what is compatible with you to gain access to destroy you.
For some people he will use entertainment, some women/men, others their hardened hearts,money….he looks for it and uses it.

Wow Lord this level of “dying to self” is where I inspire to be where even though I’m hurt I extend grace first. This is where healing takes place and restoration.

There is so much I find uncomfortable to watch or listen to these days, it just don’t sit well with my spirit.

Wisdom is listening with your spirit.

MANY will say “we casted demons and prophesied in your name” yet Jesus will say “I never knew you” that scares me because so MANY people will never really know Jesus because they never had intimacy with him or lived like him. It scares me because the Bible says “MANY”

Many people have zeal but no revelation. The sons of Sceva had zeal but no revelation.

The enemies greatest tactic is to masquerade his thoughts as your own. ~Stephanie Ike