Just weeks after my experience, another day-old baby was killed at the exact same hospital. A boy just like 3 with the same little red hat.

Reading the article, so much sounded familiar. Negligent care. The Trust had to apologise to the parents. The parents said

I am hoping that this will not unmask me, but with maternity services in the news I thought I would share my 'birth story' from the past few years...

James DeFrance They’re men, you probably consider that hateful. It’s just truth and reality. No man is a lesbian.

James DeFrance Now your turn! Show us the WOMEN attacking them …. I’ll wait !

James DeFrance Trans women are not and never will be lesbians. Don’t confuse women asserting their boundaries with hate, I’ll keep defending women while you keep defending men.

James DeFrance WOW! I just got a homophobe feed that was virulently hateful towards lesbians. It may be 2024, four years into the decade that sanity forgot, but NO men are lesbians. Also, lesbians don’t need the permission of men with ENTIRELY shit for brains not to do dick

James DeFrance Lesbians are fed up with (mostly straight) men pretending to be them. Attacking lesbians is an invitation for an attack on all women. Women don't deserve your hate.

There. Fixed it for you.

James DeFrance Wow it's 2024 & you think not only that men are lesbians but this is an acceptable community at the expense of women. Stop being a rapey lesophobe! Men do deserve to be despised for their treatment of lesbians & misogyny!

James DeFrance No one is LGBTQ. It's impossible to be all of those things at once. And there is no one community. As a lesbian, I have nothing in common with straight blokes LARPing as lesbians. Lesbians don't deserve their LARPing, & we certainly don't deserve to be called bigots for objecting

James DeFrance #LGBwithoutTQ

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James DeFrance erasure (also known as identicide at the extreme end) is where you punish and control a group of people by taking away their right to use words to describe themselves, or self organise. Like when people redefined the words women and lesbians to include (a sub set of ) men.

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Martina Navratilova James DeFrance Why is a 'trans women' lesbian not just called a straight man? There is no same sex attraction as it's a man and a women?

What grants them security council level control and attention over actual same sex attracted men and women?

Martina Navratilova James DeFrance I’m tired of this language of “community” when homosexuality isn’t a culture. We are in every single culture.

It’s a trait. Like left handedness. Not a “community”, and there’s absolutely no reason to group gay ppl with ppl who reject sex and reality.

Martina Navratilova James DeFrance What’s this “our community” nonsense as well? Honestly - I am a gay man who lives in a community, in the north of England, with other people who are mostly straight. I don’t have a “community” because of the sexual orientation I have. It’s a demographic not “community”

James DeFrance Really? So “kill the TERFs” is acceptable but saying biological boys and males should compete against other males is virulent hate. Got it. And telling lesbians they are are straight is also ok. Who is the elitist here? Where is the hate and virulence? Any more misogyny???

😂😂 Best Community Note ever!

You actually have to read this to believe it

theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2…

Hazel Appleyard I’m so glad that GC has grown so large that it has attracted a dedicated group of arseholes that do nothing but talk shit about people who do useful things.

ITS LITERALLY THIS LMAO