Online child exploitation is on the rise, and the surrounding silence enables it to grow. The latest newsletter highlights this growing crisis and shares what we can all do to help stop it before it starts. handingtheshameback.org/campaigns/view… 📩Sign up now: handingtheshameback.org/sign-up

So delighted to meet a follower of Handing the Shame Back, who was happy to introduce herself and provide feedback on the help it gives her. For more on us, go to: handingtheshameback.org #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids #GlobalHandSign

Behind every survivor is a story of strength, and a real need for support. Help us keep creating safe spaces where those stories can be told and heard — handingtheshameback.org/donate #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids #GlobalHandSign

A New Zealand pilot programme has resulted in a large reduction in participants’ risk factors for engaging in harmful sexual behaviour. Gloria Masters from Handing the Shame Back shares her thoughts on its impact. nzherald.co.nz/nz/risk-posed-… nzherald University of Canterbury Sarah Christofferson

Lisa was abused by her mother's 3rd husband's son who was in his mid to late 20’s. She was 10 years old, this abuse carried on for 4 years and occurred at her family home, right under her mother’s and step father's eyes. Full clip: youtu.be/GYNzl1PElqA #HandingTheShameBack

Do you ever find yourself overthinking and wondering why you do it? This can stem from anxiety, fear, and even feelings of not being seen, heard or understood. Watch the full video here: youtu.be/-Sf9zies75U For more on us: handingtheshameback.org #HandingTheShameBack

On World Mental Health Day (10 October), we’re shining a light on the mental health of adult survivors of child sexual abuse. Whether you’re a survivor or someone who supports one, every step forward, big or small, makes a difference. #HandingTheShameBack

When child sexual abuse is kept silent, no one wins. The abusers get to continue on abusing knowing the secret won't be revealed. This enables more children to be exploited. If Safe Adults were to talk about this, it would help normalise a conversation, and protect our kids.

If you have questions, we may have some answers, each month we provide a Q&A forum for you to help educate and inform. This month’s Q&A has a range of questions including: How do I help my kids identify who a ‘safe adult’ is? Watch the full video here: youtu.be/7_bVJpLrgfA

Child sexual abuse hides in silence. We're here to break it. If as a safe adult you would like to help us prevent child sexual abuse, we welcome your support. Your support helps bring education, resources, and hope into places where it’s needed most — handingtheshameback.org/donate

Keith was 7 years old when the abuse began by an older brother, this went on till he was 12 years of age. The coercive control and manipulation was powerful and ensured Keith never spoke out. He finally found his voice during Covid in 2021. Full clip: youtu.be/nxtUJtLKMic

There are many tools to keep kids safe online, but no action means no choice for them. Children often don’t realise what’s happening until it’s too late. Be the 'Safe Adult' who teaches them the risks and installs protective software before it’s needed. handingtheshameback.org

Overthinking is often tied to hypervigilance, a post trauma response. For many survivors, it became second nature when survival meant replaying and planning. But does it still serve you as an adult? If not, listen to the blog for answers. Full clip here: youtu.be/hmEXE1KECNQ

For all survivors of child sexual abuse, they were just that: children! They could not consent to that which they did not understand. As a result, many survivors carry their shame in silence, for years, sometimes a lifetime. Let them hand the shame back. handingtheshameback.org/donate

The need for practical tools to prevent child sexual abuse is more urgent than ever, and families are looking for real answers. This month’s newsletter shares key prevention strategies, resources, and how to respond to the Global Hand Sign. handingtheshameback.org/campaigns/view…

Tracy was the eldest of 4 children and the only girl. Her mother was 17 when she had her. She was abused by her father from the age of 4. She was abused by a celebrity at age 9, by a boy at age 12, and then by a man under a bridge at age 15. Full clip: youtu.be/wG4zhbzbHYw

A very important event occurs this month. On November 12th, The National Day of Reflection for Survivors of Abuse in Care in New Zealand, is being held. The event is community-led and funded by the government to acknowledge and remember survivors. ecpat.org.nz/training-event…

We know that entities like Porn Hub allow access to children as young as 10 years of age. What is less known is that this creates pathways in the brain which search for more of that ‘pleasure seeking’ experience.

It is vital for everyone to get enough sleep, especially survivors. Sleep is when the mind can finally rest, unwind, and recover from the effects of trauma and anxiety. A solid eight hours is essential for healing and recovery. Full video here: youtu.be/AQn1GAS9yOM

#WorldKindnessDay - 13 November On this day across the world is an opportunity for every person to show an act of kindness. We are all here as part of the human race, and it's time to focus on looking out for each other, showing compassion and care.