There’s nothing wrong with catering to your man, there’s nothing wrong with spoiling your woman, as long as they are a good one and the relationship is on the right path.

We have to stop rewarding unworthy partners with our all. Lets make sure they go through the process of earning our hearts.

Brother, we are needed in the family unit. It’s important to do your part and be in your children’s lives regardless. They need us.

Brother: Only a fool thinks a woman owes him something for paying for dinner. If you cannot simply take a woman out on a date, you’re not ready for real dating or meaningful relationships.

Stop calling her “wifey material” simply because she looks good. You’re falling in lust and exposing your shallowness, wondering why you still can’t find a good one.

If he never gave you reason not to trust him, you can’t see him as untrustworthy simply because he is part of the species that has betrayed your trust.

Brothers: many of us are trying to get right financially. Some of us are trying to get right mentally. However, not enough of us are getting right emotionally.

You’re not obligated to stay in that terrible relationship just because you’ve been together so long.

There’s a woman out there who will genuinely care about you, but the best thing you can do until you meet her is genuinely care about yourself and become invested your growth.

If she doesn’t listen to your legitimate needs but guilt trips you about not fulfilling all her wants, it’s time to start packing, my man. You are not obligated to feed your heart to selfish people.

Do you appreciate vulnerability from a man, or is it only the idea of it and what it can do for a relationship that you love?

And I’ve met too many with masks, tongues painted with promises. I am used to people speaking good. I want someone who speaks truth when they voice their feelings for me.

Brothers, don’t try to convince any woman you’re a good guy. Leave that in 2019. Simply be a good guy, and those who wanna see it will. Those who want to appreciate it will. Stop trying to show them different.

A lot can change when you switch from the mentality that you can’t settle down because better might be out there to the mentality that you need to secure the better that you have now.

Your ego doesn’t make you a man, it keeps you from being a man.

Since I’ve been gone from this platform. I noticed a lot of men are rising up. Only to talk about “why they don’t need women” or “why successful women aren’t desirable” 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

Ladies when you say, “I got my own,” and don’t need a man, you’re also saying all you need a man for is to provide. That’s it. Good men are good providers; but, we are good for more than just providing.

Fellas, self-discipline or self-restraint displays more strength than violence. Anyone can be violent, not everyone can restrain their violent reactions.