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Joseph Michael Essex

@gandreedsdad

Parenting from Arms Length / Thoughts about parenting from a first time father at 48, now 64.

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Sons are not extensions of their fathers but fathers are extensions, stages, platforms on which their sons might build & shape their lives.

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Watch the dance as boys become men. Back is familiar & safe with less responsibilities. Forward is freedom but no experience with choices.

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The most difficult action of parenting is inaction; causing your child to experience a painful truth that you could have prevented.

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Teaching our children how to anticipate and accept the consequences of their choices is as important as teaching them how to make choices.

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Children don’t become adults by giving them responsibilities they become adults by accepting responsibility, age has little to do with when.

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Ours, are city boys; trains, buses and occasionly cabs are how they get about. What was an arch of passage is no longer a necessary skill.

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It's always a difficult decision, when NOT to intervene. Sometimes a serial of bad choices don't become obvious until they become a habit.

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It's always a difficult decision, when NOT to intervene. Sometimes a serial of bad choices don't become obvious until they become a habit

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ENGLISH, in high school, stops being about what's correct and becomes about what you think. It's no wonder many math students get whiplash.

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We need to remember, our CHILDREN are continuously & relentlessly becoming the people they are going to be whether we recognize it or not.

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BOYS will never truly become MEN if they don’t acknowledge mistakes & make amends. FATHERS must be examples if the lesson is to be valued.

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BOYS will never truly become MEN if they don’t acknowledge mistakes & make amends. FATHERS must be examples if the lesson is to be valued

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BEING patient empathetic & understanding provides significantly less satisfaction than going a little CRAZY . . . if only for a few moments.

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Parenting is a constant struggle between doing for your children or letting them learn how to do for themselves, no matter how old they get.

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With SEX out of the equation, how boys are taught to treat the girls & women in their families is how they will treat girl friends & wives.

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What does every other high school student do at 2:37am WITHOUT their own art department on stand by . . . or watching Jon Stewart on TiVo?

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Boys become men making conscious choices. By helping them fulling appreciate why they chose this over that, they will learn what to do next.

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Advising 16 year old boys is like providing driving directions from back of a crowded bus – you're not sure he hears you or is ignoring you.