“Of course I’m not worried about intimidating men. The type of man who will be intimidated by me is exactly the type of man I have no interest in” Chief Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie ✨

I hate how you people find new ways to complicate life. Bridal shower, bachelorette, baby shower, gender reveal and now I’m seeing wedding date reveal cakes. Are you people mad?!

At some point in your life, you would meet a man that likes you and goes above & beyond to show it & spoil you silly. Please I beg you, it is of utmost importance to reciprocate & try your best to spoil him too Don’t think him a fool Don’t be a leech Enjoy it and reciprocate🤍

i highly recommend you find yourself a clingy(healthy) lovey dovey partner who's super excited about you. life is too short to spend it with someone who act like showing love is a chore.

Never ever in your life build a man. Focus on building yourself and growing you. If you want to be with a man…..let him already come built. You will waste your life and time pouring into a man’s growth while neglecting your own and there will be no reward.

Almost everyone don do that life before buying car. If you’re a 9-5er If you snooze alarm more than once & miss staff bus, you’re not buying more than one meat that day.

Solyricon true… the love you give usually says more about you than about the person who received it. that part of you doesn’t disappear just because the relationship did.

The problem is that you want to compare us with people who are stealing and doing rituals. We are okay with our salaries, we pay our bills well, put food on our tables and drive cars we can afford. We only broke for your unrealistic expectations!

Being ghosted doesn't even bother me anymore. As long as you don't owe me money, you can disappear all you want.

I’m gonna get yelled at for saying this… but a lot of women are single because they haven’t met a man who’s better at being a man than they already are.

At some point in your life, you will feel like you are losing the race. It's very important you realize there's no race, only different journeys, timing and different lessons meant for each of us

Being poor should scare you more than being unmarried, if we are being honest.

Nobody tells you that some of your biggest milestones happen quietly. No party. No post. Just you, standing in your kitchen, realizing you finally feel okay.

Loving soft life or ease is a good thing. Because it rewires your mind to find a way to demystify hard things. To find an efficient way to do hard things. It’s a weapon, use it to your advantage.

You can't breadcrumb a woman who feeds herself. I have hobbies. I have my career. I have options. If you disappear, I don't spiral. I reorganize.

Bro, Don’t marry greatness and confine her to the kitchen. God will judge you!

You spend more time in your mattress than you spend in your car. Many people still prioritise a car over a solid mattress. Don’t skimp on a good mattress. A well rested person is a productive person.

6 years ago today, we were told to take our laptops home for no reason. Friday March 13th, at 11:30am, we received an email telling us why.

Let me tell you about the picture in Frame 1. In August 2017, as a litigation lawyer in Lagos, I had work to do that required me to be at the office during the weekend. There was only one problem that weekend. I had a 16 months old son, no nanny and no one to leave him with